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Post by SamCogar Wed May 28, 2008 7:08 am

SAN FRANCISCO — Guadalupe Benitez claims that after being treated with fertility drugs for nearly a year, her Christian doctors refused to inseminate her because she is a lesbian.

She sued and a San Diego County trial judge sided with her. But an appeals court reversed the ruling, and her lawsuit is scheduled to be heard by the California Supreme Court this week.

The case is closely being watched by civil rights and physician groups who think it could have consequences for other medical procedures, including abortion and end-of-life decisions.

"There is confusion among many health care providers who believe doctors have the freedom to pick and choose their patients," said Jennifer Pizer, an attorney with the gay rights legal group Lambda Legal who represents Benitez. "But doctors' ethics may not be exercised in a discriminatory way."

Benitez, now the mother of a 6-year-old boy and 2-year-old twin girls, sued Vista-based North Coast Women's Care Medical Group under a state law that prohibits for-profit businesses from arbitrarily discriminating against clients based on characteristics such as race, age and sexual orientation.

The appeals court noted that at the time Benitez sought treatment, California civil rights law still allowed businesses to restrict their clientele based on a customer's marital status and Benitez's doctors claimed the main reason they would not treat her was because she was unmarried.

http://www.ajc.com/news/content/shared-gen/ap/National/Lesbian_Insemination.html

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Post by Stephanie Wed May 28, 2008 9:38 am

I'm wrong to worry that government sanctioned gay marriage will exacerbate this problem. Rolling Eyes
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Post by ziggy Wed May 28, 2008 9:56 am

Stephanie wrote:I'm wrong to worry that government sanctioned gay marriage will exacerbate this problem. Rolling Eyes

I believe that you are, yes. As you and Aaron have shown here, folks do not need to be married to claim unfair discrimination.
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Post by Stephanie Wed May 28, 2008 10:20 am

She sued and a San Diego County trial judge sided with her. But an appeals court reversed the ruling, and her lawsuit is scheduled to be heard by the California Supreme Court this week.


I believe that you are, yes. As you and Aaron have shown here, folks do not need to be married to claim unfair discrimination.

No, they don't need to have government recognized marriages to claim discrimination. However, the initial ruling was reversed by the appelate court. It would have very likely been upheld if gay marriage become sanctioned by the government.
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Post by ziggy Wed May 28, 2008 10:26 am

Stephanie wrote:No, they don't need to have government recognized marriages to claim discrimination. However, the initial ruling was reversed by the appelate court. It would have very likely been upheld if gay marriage become sanctioned by the government.

Why would it have been? And even if it had been, why would that be a problem?
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Post by Stephanie Wed May 28, 2008 11:15 am

Ziggy,

It is a problem because individual citizens have the right not to participate in things they object to on religious or moral grounds. We've been through this.
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Post by Ich bin Ala-awkbarph Wed May 28, 2008 11:17 am

Stephanie wrote:Ziggy,

It is a problem because individual citizens have the right not to participate in things they object to on religious or moral grounds. We've been through this.

Ziggy do you believe that pacifists should have to pay taxes to support war.
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Post by ziggy Wed May 28, 2008 12:31 pm

Armon Ayers wrote:Ziggy do you believe that pacifists should have to pay taxes to support war.

If that is the law (and it is), then yes they should. Why shouldn't they?
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Post by ziggy Wed May 28, 2008 12:34 pm

Stephanie wrote:Ziggy,

It is a problem because individual citizens have the right not to participate in things they object to on religious or moral grounds. We've been through this.

And individual citizens have the right to not participate in hetereosexual things they object to on religious or moral grounds. So should we outlaw hetereosexual marriages?
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Post by Aaron Wed May 28, 2008 12:36 pm

ziggy wrote:
Armon Ayers wrote:Ziggy do you believe that pacifists should have to pay taxes to support war.

If that is the law (and it is), then yes they should. Why shouldn't they?

And if the draft is the law then why shouldn't ALL eligible enlistee's be required to go fight for their country? Why should the be able to object on moral grounds?
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Post by ziggy Wed May 28, 2008 12:49 pm

Aaron wrote:
ziggy wrote:
Armon Ayers wrote:Ziggy do you believe that pacifists should have to pay taxes to support war.

If that is the law (and it is), then yes they should. Why shouldn't they?

And if the draft is the law then why shouldn't ALL eligible enlistee's be required to go fight for their country? Why should the be able to object on moral grounds?

When the draft was last in effect, the DRAFT LAW itself provided for exemption based on conscientious moral objection. So why? Because it was right there in the draft law.
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Post by Stephanie Wed May 28, 2008 5:40 pm

ziggy wrote:
Stephanie wrote:Ziggy,

It is a problem because individual citizens have the right not to participate in things they object to on religious or moral grounds. We've been through this.

And individual citizens have the right to not participate in hetereosexual things they object to on religious or moral grounds. So should we outlaw hetereosexual marriages?

Are individuals being sued for not participating in them?
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Post by ziggy Wed May 28, 2008 10:51 pm

Stephanie wrote:
ziggy wrote:
Stephanie wrote:Ziggy,

It is a problem because individual citizens have the right not to participate in things they object to on religious or moral grounds. We've been through this.

And individual citizens have the right to not participate in hetereosexual things they object to on religious or moral grounds. So should we outlaw hetereosexual marriages?

Are individuals being sued for not participating in them?

Not that I know of. But people are being sued for not participating in homosexual ceremonies anyway- even without gay marriage. Those lawsuits are about anti-discrimination of homosexuals- not about marriage.

Too, discrimination against black & whire couples has almost disappeared in our lifetimes. Less than 100 years ago black males were routinely hanged by the KKK for consorting with white women. But legalization of and social acceptance of interracial marriage has virtually eliminated such discrimination because it has removed the stigma associated with interracial dating and marriage.

Why can't we learn something from that and be more forward looking about homosexual relationships?
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Post by Ich bin Ala-awkbarph Wed May 28, 2008 10:58 pm

When I read the headline, I thought of Carson's old Carnak routine. The question was, "Why Chelsea was born?"
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Post by Stephanie Wed May 28, 2008 11:19 pm

ziggy wrote:
Stephanie wrote:
ziggy wrote:
Stephanie wrote:Ziggy,

It is a problem because individual citizens have the right not to participate in things they object to on religious or moral grounds. We've been through this.

And individual citizens have the right to not participate in hetereosexual things they object to on religious or moral grounds. So should we outlaw hetereosexual marriages?

Are individuals being sued for not participating in them?

Not that I know of. But people are being sued for not participating in homosexual ceremonies anyway- even without gay marriage. Those lawsuits are about anti-discrimination of homosexuals- not about marriage.

Too, discrimination against black & whire couples has almost disappeared in our lifetimes. Less than 100 years ago black males were routinely hanged by the KKK for consorting with white women. But legalization of and social acceptance of interracial marriage has virtually eliminated such discrimination because it has removed the stigma associated with interracial dating and marriage.

Why can't we learn something from that and be more forward looking about homosexual relationships?

Ziggy,

There are plenty of Americans opposed to interracial marriages. I'm of the opinion that racism on this country is on the upswing again. Just because the overt discrimination is targeted against different groups, doesn't mean the discrimination against interracial couples has gone away, it's just become more subtle.

None of this changes the fact that private citizens have the right to refuse to provide goods and services to homosexuals, or interracial couples, or middle aged Yankee women. The Constitution guarantees civil liberties for everyone, including bigots and anyone else you or I may disagree with.
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Post by ohio county Thu May 29, 2008 6:33 am

I think Takara was correct when she pointed out that the Civil Rights Act prohibited refusing service to anyone based on race or a host of other biological traits. I see a society that is increasingly color-blind. No, bias and illogical hate still exist and maybe always will. But, all-in-all the melting pot is really melting. And there is evidence that trend will continue - what race is Tiger Woods, for instance? Black? Asian? Who begrudges him his success because of his race(s)? The question "what is your background" has become somewhat taboo. Not so much because of political correctness as total confusion.
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Post by SheikBen Thu May 29, 2008 6:40 am

I think OC is right and that we are moving to a more color blind society. Within my own family, both of my brothers are in interracial marriages, and I don't think anyone blinks at that.

Curiously, I have come across more racism within Latin America than I have in the United States. In Lima, Peru, there was a restaurant that limited service a couple of years ago to people whose skin was lighter. In many countries, more indigenous people are discriminated against in favor of those with more evidence of Spanish ancestry. Many Mexican families cherish the lightest of their children, particularly if they are males. A male friend of mine has 4 brothers and no sisters, and his dad was viewed very highly for that "feat."

While I was in Chicoutimi, Quebec, 11 years ago, a very kind but ignorant lady told me that she feared me going back to my native Chicago because she believed that black people were going to steal my liver (remember the urban legend of waking up in a tub full of ice?)

I think the US is doing wel rather than poorly.

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Post by ohio county Thu May 29, 2008 6:59 am

When little ohio county, jr. was about ten or twelve we took him to a private lake where a fellow I know had taken his many children with very similar names and unique mothers to swim.

As we were leaving mrs. ohio county and I were remarking how much we enjoyed watching the little black kids yelling ("wat's uh- matta wit y'all"?) and splashing.

Little oc, jr said, "Why do you say 'black' kids?".

"Well," we said with great wisdom recognizing the teaching opportunity, "we try to call people what they want to be called."

"No," he responded, "why don't you just say 'kids'? Why do they have to be 'black' kids?".

We recognized the superior wisdom.

I saw a statistic yesterday that made me smile and if I can find it again, I'll share it. The number of white folk who felt threatened by those of color was smaller than the number of people of color who felt threatened by people of color. And I'm thinking that was here in WV. Now, please don't get me wrong - racism is alive and well and WV holds no monopoly on it. However, my belief is that the issue of race may be abating. It is the issue that stains our history and defines us. Times change.
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Post by Stephanie Thu May 29, 2008 7:54 am

ohio county wrote:I think Takara was correct when she pointed out that the Civil Rights Act prohibited refusing service to anyone based on race or a host of other biological traits. I see a society that is increasingly color-blind. No, bias and illogical hate still exist and maybe always will. But, all-in-all the melting pot is really melting. And there is evidence that trend will continue - what race is Tiger Woods, for instance? Black? Asian? Who begrudges him his success because of his race(s)? The question "what is your background" has become somewhat taboo. Not so much because of political correctness as total confusion.

Jimmy,

There is no doubt (at least in my mind) that white Americans are far less biased towards black Americans. That doesn't mean I agree that it has really abated all that much, more like it has shifted. I think most Arab-Americans would agree with me, as well as a fair percentage of Latinos.
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Post by Ich bin Ala-awkbarph Thu May 29, 2008 9:19 am

ohio county wrote:When little ohio county, jr. was about ten or twelve we took him to a private lake where a fellow I know had taken his many children with very similar names and unique mothers to swim.

As we were leaving mrs. ohio county and I were remarking how much we enjoyed watching the little black kids yelling ("wat's uh- matta wit y'all"?) and splashing.

Little oc, jr said, "Why do you say 'black' kids?".

"Well," we said with great wisdom recognizing the teaching opportunity, "we try to call people what they want to be called."

"No," he responded, "why don't you just say 'kids'? Why do they have to be 'black' kids?".

We recognized the superior wisdom.

I saw a statistic yesterday that made me smile and if I can find it again, I'll share it. The number of white folk who felt threatened by those of color was smaller than the number of people of color who felt threatened by people of color. And I'm thinking that was here in WV. Now, please don't get me wrong - racism is alive and well and WV holds no monopoly on it. However, my belief is that the issue of race may be abating. It is the issue that stains our history and defines us. Times change.

If one is exactly 50% black and 50% white, why is he or she 100% black and not 100% white?
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Post by ohio county Thu May 29, 2008 9:39 am

Armon Ayers asked:
If one is exactly 50% black and 50% white, why is he or she 100% black and not 100% white?

I don't know - maybe because as little as 1/8 heritage resulted in a free man being held as a runaway slave or as little as 1/8 heritage resulted in a free man being marched along the Trail of Tears to an unknown future in the Missouri Territory.

Stephanie said:
I think most Arab-Americans would agree with me, as well as a fair percentage of Latinos.

I suppose you are correct, my reasonable and stubbornly Yankee friend, but I woud add that the source of some anti-Arab bias and most anti-Latino bias lie in their wails of entitlement. Fighting acclimatization and claiming our tax dollars are not the way to gain acceptance.
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Post by SamCogar Thu May 29, 2008 9:59 am

Stephanie wrote:Ziggy,

It is a problem because individual citizens have the right not to participate in things they object to on religious or moral grounds. We've been through this.

Remind him again, ........ he done forgot he didn't want to participate in the Viet Nam War.
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Post by Ich bin Ala-awkbarph Thu May 29, 2008 10:05 am

SamCogar wrote:
Stephanie wrote:Ziggy,

It is a problem because individual citizens have the right not to participate in things they object to on religious or moral grounds. We've been through this.

Remind him again, ........ he done forgot he didn't want to participate in the Viet Nam War.
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If I hadn't fought in that war, we would have lost it.
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Post by SamCogar Thu May 29, 2008 10:09 am

Armon Ayers wrote:If one is exactly 50% black and 50% white, why is he or she 100% black and not 100% white?

You are asking for a definition of Color Harassment ....... and it all depends on who is doing the looking.

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Post by Aaron Thu May 29, 2008 10:31 am

What it all depends on is the benefits of the race. Obama has a huge upside to being labeled 'African American', considering he will be the first of that race to achieve the Presidency. The problem is, he's not the first 'African American' to achieve that distinction, should he win. He will be the first 'Mixed Race' American.

The problem is, the person gets to choose the race. If my parents were born in South Africa as white individuals, as about 10% of South Africa's 44 million people are, then why wouldn't I be "African American". The thing is, if I check that on say, a college application, they normally won't allow it.

But it's not just what race people check either. The government does it when they categorize prisoners. Currently, 39.5% of our prison population is black while 34.6% is white. How many of those 'black' prisoners are actually of mixed racial decent?

I think the solution is to create a new race, that being 'Mixed Race'. I think that's the only way to solve what I believe will be an ever increasing problem.
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